Every couple should consider and discuss:

What is our total attitude about our family life? Is it generous and loving?

Can our health bear and support a child at this time?

Can we mentally and psychologically "afford" another child at this time?

What about the needs of children already born?

How will this affect our relationship with each other?

Are there marital problems and adjustments that should be resolved first?

How would we manage the extra financial costs?

Are we capable of preparing a child to take his/her place in society?

Have we prayed together and alone about welcoming a child into our family?

Have we re-evaluated our decision periodically?